Yes, you can, keeping in mind that for many people, SkyDancing Tantra is a life-changing experience. After having gone through our seminars, people often look at life very differently than before. Sometimes, when you come alone to a Tantra workshop, the change in you is so significant that it can disrupt your relationship patterns. A divide may occur and become so wide that the connection between the two partners becomes more difficult.
Take time to discuss this decision with your partner before attending Tantra workshops without him/her. Also, make sure that his/her resistances are not based on a misconception of what is Tantra. If that appears to be the case, suggest that your partner call a SkyDancing Teacher or Institute Director to express his/her fears. Maybe your partner will choose to come with you.
If the partner is still not interested after that, make your decision on your own. We have many individuals attend as a solo and find the experience enhances all their relationships. Be mindful that even when attending together, challenges can arise, through which many couples flourish and some struggle. These Trainings are powerful and yet they are not a replacement for marriage therapy. There is no right or wrong choice regarding the seminar; the question is, what is the better option for you and your relationship? Maybe it is better for your relationship to decline, maybe not.
During our seminars, when you attend them as a couple, you are always free to choose whether you want to practice with your partner or not. Group-facilitators are trained to provide indications and time for couples to make a decision before each practice. Some of our couple participants always practice together, some other never split and some split from time to time after having taken the time to discuss and decide together. Choosing becomes an exercise of awareness for our couple participants.
Tantra is mainly an individual path. A path of freedom. You may want to attend a seminar either in a couple or a triad or as an individual. There are some specific Tantra Seminars for Couples to which you cannot access as a single. But as of today, all SkyDancing Approved Seminars offered by our Institutes are accessible to singles or couples or any form of relating or any form of identifying to a gender or not.
In a SkyDancing Tantra Seminar, you should never be obliged to do anything that you don’t want. The exercise is not about doing something but about watching consciously how you react to various proposals. When the group-facilitator presents a practice, please consider it as an invitation, a proposal. Your exercise is :
- Check how you receive this proposal.
- Consciously assess whether it feels feasible to you or not and how difficult it looks to you.
- Make a decision to do or not to do
- Communicate it to your partner gently without any fear to hurt him/her or any guilt if you decide not to do what is offered.
Sometimes you can also decide to do less than what is proposed : example : the group-facilitator invites you to share a 3 minutes still and silent hug with somebody : You may decide to stay at a distance of 2 meters, or 1 meter, or to simply propose to your partner to take each other’s hands or to go for a full hug. You use all your creativity so to stick to the proposal without hurting yourself by going beyond your limits.
In other words, in a SkyDancing Tantra seminar, you can always do less (in particular in terms of shared intimacy) than what is proposed. Never more. (in the above example, no caresses on the back during the Hug).
Originating from the ancient tantric tradition, the
Created by Margot Anand, this method has been transmitted for over 35 years by SkyDancing Tantra institutes around the world, addressing anyone wishing to learn about this path..
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With an exceptional life path, Margot Anand offers a teaching where French spirit and humor, American efficiency and Indian mysticism are beautifully alchemized. A graduate of the Sorbonne in psychology, she has trained throughout her life in Gestalt, Bioenergetics, massage, meditation and yoga. After a spontaneous mystical awakening, she deepened her intuitive knowledge of Tantra with several spiritual masters in India, the USA and Europe. Author of 5 books and a series of DVDs, she teaches TEL, Love and Ecstasy Training around the world.

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The French-speaking SkyDancing Tantra Institute, based in Switzerland, has been directed by Nital Brinkley since 1990. Its mission is to transmit the tantric teachings of Margot Anand, in the form of evenings, introductory and advanced workshops, and trainings, in France, French-speaking Switzerland and Belgium.